This is a message to all men:
I will be open with you and tell you straight.
Please take my advise..
Do you know that most men are falling because of having multiple girlfriends, and even more because they have an intimate or sexual relationship with them?
Be aware that not every girl is as sweet as she may look to you, at first glance.
- Some of them may destroy your future.
- Some of them may have a wrong spirit, and give you a miserable life.
And when you chase after girls to have sex with them:
- Some of them may have AIDS, and kill you in the end. Especially those who have sexual contacts with more persons could infect you. Be careful ! If you are a man who can’t control his sexual urge, you are taking enormous risks.
Sinning against God’s rules is not done without consequences. And some functions in the assembly are not available to a man with more than one wife.
1 Timothy 3:2
An overseer, then, must be above reproach, the husband of one wife, temperate, prudent, respectable, hospitable, able to teach,
But a man who is obedient to God may have a long life.
“With a long life I will satisfy him And let him see My salvation.”
(These things should actually be unnecessary to mention, but they happen, and often go wrong.)
- Having many girlfriends does not make you a man. On the contrary, you only show that you are an immature boy, who doesn’t have himself in control. On top of that, it only makes you a womanizer, and a cheat. Nobody will celebrate you for having many girlfriends. So probably it is no more than a waste of energy and possibly money.
- The fact that you are “good in bed” does not make you a man either.
A real man is one who does not run away from his responsibilities but faces them squarely.
- You should not use and dump ladies, and treat them like they are trash. Doing so you only show that you are trash.
Remember that you will receive a reward for everything you do. For the good things, but also for the bad things you did.
Behold, I am coming quickly, and My reward is with Me, to render to every man according to what he has done.
The world has a saying: “If you cannot make her your wife, don’t make her a mother”.
But I say to you: “If she isn’t your wife don’t sleep with her!”
- Do not react on all feelings, because your feelings are often misleading you, and lead you in the wrong direction.
- Keep them under control, and don’t let them control you, for the moment your feelings control you, you become their slave.
And concerning contact with women,
- when you come in contact with a beautiful or sexy girl, it may cause you to get an erection, but this doesn’t mean you should rape her! Use your brains, and don’t degrade yourself to trash ! Be careful ! If you don’t keep yourself in control your life may turn out to be very short, and miserable.
- Again, make sure you stay in control, and don’t become a victim, a slave, of your lust.
- Control your sex urge. There usually is a positive effect, and reward on self-control and abstinence in most cases.
- Do not date a lady, only because she has nice breasts, or sexy curves, or shapes. Those things are only the outside, which may disappear in coming years. The outside may be very deceptive, specially when you know the girl only via social media. Tell me would you buy a cell phone because it comes in a nice wrapper, or because of its abilities?
- Always have respect for all ladies, and ofcourse you don’t beat any woman.
- Don’t gossip! Keep secrets that are shared with you secret, and prove yourself trustworthy.
- Marrying a woman doesn’t mean she is your property. Treat her with respect; Make her your queen; Love her; Honor her; And give her reasons to treat you in the same way, and make you her king.
- Remember, what you give is what you get.
- Finally don’t be a cheating man. When you cheat, you may think you are winning, but you are actually losing. You may in the end even lose all !
You may think you are smart enough to fool your partner, and maybe you get away with it for some time, but you can’t fool your Creator.
You will reap what you sow, so you better start trying to grow good things.
Juggling women doesn’t make you a man. Being honest, loyal and faithful does.
Having lots of girlfriends, sleeping around, dishonest behavior, cheating.., all these things have caused many men to go to their grave much earlier than they hoped for.
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